When you hear the word labels, what is the first thing that comes to mind? It might well be a sticker such as the one
pictured above. While required in the food industry, there is another kind of
label that I am referencing this morning, and that would be the type we apply
to people which would be the verb usage of the word as opposed to the noun.
If the application is an affirmative one, no problem, and
all the better; however, if it carries a negative connotation, there can be far
reaching effects, especially if it was applied without substantiation. Enter the world of opinion which seems to have no end.
Take a moment to reflect upon your life. Have you been the unfortunate recipient of an
unkind or unhealthy label glued to you?
What effect did this have on you in the past, and are you still
struggling under the weight of it today?
My sweet mother, Rita, who is no longer with us,
counseled her children that she was rearing in the 1960’s with, “If you can’t
say something nice about someone, don’t say anything at all.” As I wondered about the possible origin of
that saying, I came across the following information:
“Quote Investigator: The earliest evidence located by QI
was published in a magazine profile of Alice Roosevelt Longworth titled “The
Sharpest Wit in Washington” published in “The Saturday Evening Post” issue of
December 4, 1965. Interestingly, the expression was not spoken; instead, it was
embroidered on a pillow. Also, the word “good” was used instead of “nice”.
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We walked to Mrs. Longworth’s upstairs sitting room,
where she often reads until six o’clock in the morning. Books were piled
everywhere on the tables and on the floor, and contemporary newspaper clippings
were strewn on the side tables. Coyote skins were lying on the backs of two
large, comfortable chairs, and on one of the chairs was a pillow with the
words, IF YOU CAN’T SAY SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT SOMEONE, SIT RIGHT HERE BY ME.”
While I can’t speak to the veracity of the above, a
portion of the description of Mrs. Longworth’s upstairs sitting room could
apply to my little living room, i.e., books piled everywhere and contemporary
newspaper clippings strewn on the side tables and so forth. It was my daddy, Trapper Fred, who had coyote
skins lying on the backs of chairs inside our house located on Sage Creek Farms.
What I can speak to is sharing with you some of the steps
that I have taken to formulate new labels in my life. One of the key aspects of formulating is to
create or devise a strategy for positive change.
- I changed my thoughts, ergo, I changed my world. I am endeavoring to become who I was destined
to be, not who or what someone else thought I should be. Critic Land has no population shortage.
- There has been a saying floating around of late which
goes something along the lines of, “If I had to cut you out of my life, you
provided the scissors.” At first blush,
that may sound sort of humorous. Truth
be known, if there are people in our lives who create toxic atmospheres and do
not have our best interests at heart, is there wisdom in continuing to foster
that friendship and/or relationship if the other person is unwilling to
contribute in a positive sense? You have
to be the judge of that situation.
Negativity breeds negativity. The
converse of that is true as well.
- Foods are fortified with vitamins and minerals which are essential for good health. How many of you recall the cartoon character Popeye the Sailor? Popeye began as a character in Elzie Segar's daily strip, Thimble Theatre. He quickly became popular and the Fleischer brothers, Max and Dave, turned him into a cartoon in the early 30's. His first appearance was July 14, 1933. His little jingle was,
“I'm
Popeye the Sailor Man
I'm
Popeye the Sailor Man
I'm strong to the finich
Cause
I eats me spinach
I'm
Popeye the Sailor Man.”
- While
continuing to eat my spinach, I also drew up a blueprint to fortify my life. A defensive framework was set in place for
protection. Healthy relationships are as
vital for daily living as is healthy eating.
- Most importantly, I endeavor to apply Ephesians 2:20 to my daily life, "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. [Emphasis mine]. According to Strong's Concordance of the Bible, the Greek meaning of the word peripateo is to walk. In other words, it's a way of life. Realizing that I may fall short of this, I must continue to walk!
I would enjoy hearing from you regarding this aspect of labels along with strategies you have implemented to fashion and affix new ones.
Happy Reading, Labeling, Eating & Walking!
